I am have been seeing ghosts scene I was two. The first thing I saw was my dead grandmother who died before I was even conceived. I was about two years old and I was extremely afraid of the dark and I told my parents that there was a lady would who would sit in the rocker in the corner if my room and tell me ‘Its OK Kahlie you can sleep now, I’m here and I wont let anything get you.’
She told me to call her grandma so I did. Well when I told my parents they showed me a family picture and asked if I recognized anyone and I pointed to my dead grandma who I never met. My parents believe me about seeing stuff but my dad is the only one who will talk to me about it.
My mom thinks that I am some sort of demonic child. That quote ‘Satan is taking control of your soul and you are to never ever talk about spirits in my house again!’ I want to turn off the power of seeing ghost but I can’t and now my mom will barely look at me let alone talk to me.
She doesn’t seem to see the difference between being a ‘demonic child’ and having a gift. I really need some help if anyone has any advise please tell me. I really want to patch things up with my mom. Thanks for reading.
Sent in by Kahlie, Copyright 2010
that is sad that she treats you like that. clearly she was brought up to think anything paranormal is demonic. have you asked your dad to talk to her. i mean you are her child, she should love you regardless. for what it’s worth, believe you and i’m not the only one here who will ! hang in there!
My mother dose love me she just fears for me and I have tried having my dad talk to her but she refuses to listen.
I would your mother is afraid of it because she doesn’t understand whats going on. Have your father to talk to her or find someone that can.
how old are you now?my mouth opened when i read what your mom called you.i cannot believe your own mother said that.im sad.she should love you no matter what.when its just you and her say mom i have a gift and i can see grandma.its not a bad thing.maybe prove to her even though you shouldnt but prove that its grandma and say something that only she and your grandma only would know.maybe it will be easier for her.she probably still thinks in the back of her mind you cant see ghostsor should i say just grandma.if that makes sense.thats the only thing i can think of.i hope deep down you two can patch things up.does your dad talk about her alot asks you questions is he happy you saw her?tthanks for the story.
Hey Anna, I am almost fifteen and I no longer see my grandma but I do see other ghosts. My mom dose love me she just worries about stuff like ghosts possessing me and such. Like I said she can see the difference between a gift and a ‘demonic child’. My dad did ask a few questions and he is happy that I could see her. I did prove to my mom by telling her a story about my mom that only her and grandma knew which is when she yelled at me to never speak of spirits in her house again.
oh my so sorry.well if i had a daughter that could see spirts i would be by herside.thanks for commenting me back.i hope things get better.
Don’t be sorry, I think maybe if I dont talk about spirits around her she will calm back down and get over it. The problem is that we live less than a mile away from a cemetery so I see stuff all the time and its hard to ignore it.
the best way is to ask your grandma’s spirit to haunt your mother and assure her that you are a normal child just like anyother child. but the thing is your grandma loves you very much that’s why she communicates with you. you too try to communicate with her through prayers or in your dreams. only your grandma can bring back your mother.
you are lucky you have such a caring grandma.
hope you get back your mother soon.
i’m always there with you my friend.
KAHILE-no offence i dont mean to be rude if it sounds like it but you cant put your gift behind you and make your mom happy.you said yourself its had to ignore.
Don’t worry you didn’t sound rude and thanks for all the support everyone I really need it. I think my mom is starting to calm down a bit but not much.
i dont know if you will read this but i was just wondering how things are between you and your mother?
Hey Anna I always read comments and she is getting better at accepting me for who I am and what I can do. She is learning that just because I see things that she dosent, dosent mean I am a ‘demon child’
that is good to hear.im glad.
me 2, we are starting to get closer, although she did politely ask that I not talk about it around her which is better then before.
that is great news.that is better then before.when the time comes she might even ask you questions.one day.
If that ghost is really your grandmOther, she never ever hurt you..
Okay… she never hurt her… and? You need something else to put there… Sorry, but it was pretty incomplete to just say that… :/
u know what.. maybe ur mother also experienced some sort of things way back when she was a child that she dont want to remember… and because you reminded her of this paranormal act, she just have to let this violent reaction towards you just to let forget something about her past… maybe she also experienced paranormal activities, and because shes to afraid to faced, the only way to ease her off is to think that all paranormal activities are the work of demons…. u have to talked to your mother. patched things up.and try to know her experiences….
jean- You might be right but if you are there is no way she would admit that she had seen ghosts before. Things are getting better because I am careful to only talk about the ghosts around my dad and not my mom. I think she’s starting to chill out some.
Im 15 too! My nan died when my mum was 9 years old. she said when i was about two years old when i started talking to a lady in my bedroom. After she showed me a photo of my nan, who i had never seen before, i freaked out my mum a little by saying that she was the ‘lady’. i don’t remember any of this but when i was sevenish, i saw her on my landing as a white translucent figure. when i told my mum she said it was my nanny and their is nothing to be scared of. im guessing that our deseased relatives watch over small children for a certain number of years as they are still attuned to spirits.
i still feel a presence, but it dosn’t feel like her so im guessing it’s someone else. however, unless you are afraid of your gohsts, i think that you should welcome them into your life. she obviously feels that she wants to spend time with you that she didn’t get a chance to in life. My mum was a bit scarred of me at first but there is a bond between mother and child that you need to remind your mother of. Seeing gohsts can be a sign that they are unable to reach the spiritual world or have chosen to remain here due to a unfinished task, which could mean that your ‘gift’ is there to help them. Many children are more attuned to the spirit world, possibly because their spirits have just come from there.(if not, it must be crowded in heaven). if your mother has reacted to this situation so dramatically, i find it hard to believe that it is simple skeptisism. she could be scarred of you or the unknown. but, without me talking to your mother, i don’t know what it really is. oh, and unless your mother has mated with a deamon/is a demon, it is unlikley you are a demon child.
i sugest that you need to get a few people who belive you and whom your mother also trusts to sit her down so you can talk about it- a open mind means a happy life. i asume that as your mother is christian because of your quote, in which case she should realise that if mary can see angels then it’s perfectly non-satanic if you can see gohsts.
i hope i have heped you in some way and i am glad you read my comment
Thanks and she is getting more and more used to it she just fears what she dosent understand, and I do welcome the spirits I find it pretty interesting.
i’m 22 yrs old..n i want to know if my granny is trying to tel me something through my dreams..
my granny passed away when i was 6 yrs old.but i was very very close to her.my mother was her only daughter she had along with 5 sons so she was very attached to my mum and me also.after she passed away i keep getting her dreams quite often but she has always been very nice to me in every dream….
i recently had this dream where in all my relatives are in a wedding and i saw my granny and i am so excited to see her that i go around telling people that she is alive..nobody believed me, but later other people also saw her and that is when my dream ended and i woke up completely startled! i realized that i was sleeping sideways on my left hand and i got completely scared because i felt someone is holding my right hand. i tried to console myself saying its just goosebumps but i freaked out because it did not reduce..i ran into my mother’s room and told her i had a dream about granny and went to sleep after a while….
when i got up in the morning mother called me an asked me to explain what happened, once she heard my story she told me that she has similar experiences every now and then.she also told me not to get scared because its just my granny…
when my granny passed away there was a lot of problem regarding her death, since we are hindus we had to follow a lot of rituals because the time and date she died had a bad influence on the house.later the room she died in was locked for few months.for the next few years they locked the room same time and date and nobody was supposed tostay in the house only for that period of time. i donot know know why? and i feel she keeps watching me if i am alone and tries to give me other messages through my dreams….
she died because of kidney failure and she had a lot of responsibilities before she died.is there anything i can do to help her? and help myself? because i have been facing a lot of problems lately.please do reply……