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Paranormal Activity at my Home in Pakistan

Posted on February 16, 2010

I’m a Muslim living in Pakistan, I’m a house wife and live with my husband, my six year old son, my husbands second wife and her small three year old daughter. I have been experiencing very weird things, let me explain.

Like seeing some visions like colours in different places like a spot of various colors blurred in some corners of my house when I go near to have a good look they disappear into thin air. Then sometimes I hear voices. We have two bedrooms down and two up we all live down the upper bedrooms are usually closed but I hear footsteps sometimes at late night maybe around 3 or 4 strange sounds come like furniture being moved, but I’m too scared to go up that time have a look what’s happening. I spoke to my husband he sleeps in the other rum with his second wife I sleep alone with my son. He says its nothing just your thinking.

I do prayers read Quran I perform Namaz sometimes but not regularly. He says its your thinking. Last Tuesday something strange happened. I was getting ready to go out. I wore a white dress it was clean and starched. I removed it from my closet and put it on. I went to the mirror and saw same blur colors on it on my front and when I tried look down it wasn’t there again I saw the mirror it was the same spot same place again I looked down nothing there I was scared I removed the dress didn’t wear it I gave it to my servant it was brand new again. I tried to speak to my husband but to be very true he is not that into me after he married again. Anyways I tried to forget it as long as it is not hurting anyone or anything. Then some other things like someone calling my name I say yes I’m coming and when I go ask you called my family says no my husband says you’ve become a psychic patient you need treatment. I sometimes think maybe I have, his second marriage has ruined my life sometimes I feel his second wife is putting a spell on me.

This one day I felt like someone was piercing a needle in my chest it was such a bad pain. I couldn’t move or breathe. It was night time I couldn’t call my husband as he was in the other room. I tried to recite some holy things which my mother had advised me to. After some time the pain was gone. Sometimes its in my throat some piercing needle, or in my heels, sometimes my head. I’m scared don’t know what to do, but as these holy recitals heal me I’m fine, but things are getting on and on sometime back. I have a small car, I tried to open the door as I drive I tried to open the driver door it wouldn’t open. I would unlock it, it would lock itself automatically after some tries I said enough now I’m getting late the lock opened by itself and I got in the car. I was scared but brushed it off because I was getting late to drop my son to school.

These episodes are taking a toll on me. I used to not be an angry person but now constantly the fear or unknown is hovering around me its been a year. I’ve bought this house there are similar structured houses no one is experiencing anything. They are all built brand new its been a year now I bought it and the owner who built it built it for sale its been only a year so there is no past history here. What I’m scared is that my husbands wife is into some kind of voodoo or black magic practice maybe she will make me mad prove me that I’m mad and I should leave my own home. Its my house, my parents bought it for me its not my hubbys or hers they are living here. Maybe she wants that I should be proved to be mad and thrown out from my own home.

The other day I don’t remember what date but it was a week back the series of colors that I have been seeing those spots are different sort of every time sometime darker sometime very good combination colors pastels blues yellow, that day a week back the color spot was so black I almost thought it is hair that it was someone’s head with a bit long hair. I was so freaked out I started reciting the holy versus of Quran loudly and it vanished. I dared not to go near it this time as my legs were jammed to where I was sitting. Sometime back I also experienced a push from behind a light push it was light because I was near the gas cooking range and I felt a push from behind and my stomach hit the range. I looked back immediately I saw grey spot of colors which was very very light almost like smoke but faint and I tried to move it with my hand as I was cooking and thought maybe it is smoke but then the push anyways I’m answerless to all these things but I’m scared those color spots appear every now and then the noises above are very loud specially at night time as everything is quite at night but I try to put earphones in my ears and listen to songs while I sleep just to avoid those name calls and voices I sleep also with the light on I have developed the habit now but I I’m still scared very scared.

Can anyone tell me what I should do I’m disturbed a lot I cant sleep I have dark circles round my eyes I’m tensed all the time the fear of unknown what is it?

Sent in by Afreen, Copyright TrueGhostTales.com 2010




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67 Responses to “Paranormal Activity at my Home in Pakistan”
  1. anna says:

    sorry what your going threw but first i dont what to be mean but first if that is your house why on earth is your ex husband and his wife living with you.thats a big no-no in ontario.kick them out hes not your anymore you shouldnt have to deal with them.if my husband had someone else i would tell him to leave see the child fine but not to live here again.i would say alot more but i dont know if this is going to be put up.anyways maybe the circles around you are ORBS they dont do anything.check if there was a indian berial ground I dont know.but i hope everything gets better and let us know.oh about your husbands wife check whats in there room snoop around see if you find anything of you.if she is being friendly to you go for coffee and talk and if shes nice then you know if not then kick her and your ex out.still tell them to leave.thanks for the story.let us know what else happenes.

    • Caretaker says:

      Anna in case you didnt notice Afreen lives in Pakistan, a completely different culture

    • Anonymous says:

      I believe in this case Afreen’s husband is married to both women, they are muslim and she refers to his other wife as his second wife. Meaning she is his first and the new one is his second. This isn’t uncommon. Even in the few sects of Mormon’s who still practice this they are known as first, second, third etc wives.

    • arlyn says:

      Hi Anna,

      Just one question. You mean there is a possibility that we can see an orb? I have the same experience seeing this kind of color sometimes. There are times this round colorful circles are far and sometimes they are too near. The color is so beautiful and it change from light to very light until it fades or vanished. Sometimes I can also see the aura of other people. To most people the color of aura that I can see is yellow and a lot of people has this color. There are also some people in which the aura is visible and to few people I can see a color green or red aura. It might sounds funny but that is the truth.

      Maybe you can share something and I am more than happy to read about this.

      Thanks.

      • anna says:

        not everyone can see orbs.as far as i know i cant,and if i can i dont relize it.but if u see orbs i dont think they or it can harm u.maybe just maybe there around you to protect you.i dont know.thats my thought.just curious where are you from?thanks for asking me.i hope its good enough if not feel free to ask more questions.

        • arlyn says:

          Hi Anna,

          just want to know, if “orbs” is harmless, then what is it? sometimes I am thinking that inside this shiny round mist is a ghost inside? it may sounds crazy but this is what is in my mind sometimes.

          if they are harmless, what is it that they really want? why they are protecting us? sometimes I want to think that they are some kind of angel.

          • anna says:

            i think they are hareless.and tell u the truth im not sure it could be an angel.ive never heard of orbs hurting anyone.so i think you safe.ive watched shows and the orbs dont harm anyone.they are just there.take some pics if u want and post them and tell ur story and get other comments just to be sure if your not sure from me.there nothin wrong with getting a second opioin.thanks ill be waiting to hear from u.

  2. trolldoll1681 says:

    don’t criticize afreen for her living arrangements!! this is their way of life!! if it works for them i say so be it. and as for the paranormal activity, can you go to your religious leader and ask? do you have any friends whom you can talk to about this. or if you have a good relationship with the other wife, could you ask her if she has seen anything?? i wish you well afreen!!!!

    • afreen says:

      trolldoll thanks a lot to u too but dear as you said i should communicate with his second wife doll she is of pak culture a illeterate of some village she is very sharp i dont like her but i dont make enemy with her coz living in the same water you should become enemies with the crocs its that metaphor she is smart damn enough she tries to im sure mayb she has a voodoo practice some kind of a rag doll having pins it in it explains my experiencing those needles being pinned in me i have read about it my mom she lives in england even she says not to eat anything she makes or not to leave anykind of my or my sons clothes or hair around the house so im very careful, but anyways thanx a lot for ur advice i shall sure look up into it.

      • Khan says:

        Sister Afreen, don’t worry the solution is quite simple. I had the same problem. In fact they or it even attacked my son. Alhumdolillah Subhanallah that thing is now gone. Here are the things you must do on a regular basis:
        1. Always keep the house clean. If there are small children in the house make sure their soiled clothes are immediately washed.
        1. Try to always stay in a state of wudu.
        2. Before entering the bathroom always recite, Bismillah – Allahhuma inni aozobayka minal khubtee wal khabaith (from hadees Bukhari)
        3. Whenever you enter your house the first thing you should do is go to the corner of the house to the right of the Qibla and recite the Adzan. Then do the same thing in the second corner and the 3rd and 4th. Do this for 2 weeks observe the effect on the house and you.
        4. Before you sleep you must recite Ayatul Kursee. This is from the hadees Bukhari of the Prophet Mohammed (peace be on him) You can say it once or 3 times. I can promise you you will sleep well Inshallah.
        5. Unless you are in a state of impurity (menses) you must perform all your prayers. All 5 are very important. Take particular care not to miss Fajar and Asar.
        6. Be bold and next time you feel or see or hear something don’t be afraid, fear only Allah Subhanotalah and yell out to that moron and state clearly, ” I am a Muslim and if you do not leave me and this house alone you are sure to burn by Allah Subhanotalah’s wrath”.
        7. Finally Surah Baqarah is most effective against any of these filthy and vile creatures. Simply recite a little bit each day, but you must recite aloud. If you like another thing that I found effective was constantly playing Surah Baqarah on CD or from the internet or even the entire Quran. This really drives them insane.
        One more thing – DO NOT TRUST Peers or witch Doctors. Trust only in Allah Subhaotalah and the solutions he has prescribed in the Quran and the hadees of the Prophet Mohammed (Peace be on him). Calling these peers and frauds into your home is a waste of time. Your Creator is Allah and it is He who created all living and non-living things things. It is only He whose protection you need and ought to seek. What you can do yourself no Peer fakir can do. Most of all AVOID WITCH DOCTORS LIKE PLAGUE.
        If you need more advice, write on this forum I will look out for your comments.
        I hope Inshallah your problem is solved by Allah Subhanotalah’s mercy. I will pray for you.
        Salaamalikum

  3. anna says:

    im sorry if i offended anyone i didnt mean to.I just dont understand why they have to live like that.the men can do what they want but the ladies have to stay home like i said im sorry.well i should say sorry to Afreen.i shouldnt of been that rude.I do have my own thought and i guess i should of kept them to myself.

    • Caretaker says:

      I dont think you offended anyone at all. I just wanted to be sure that you were aware that this story takes place in a different country with different customs.

  4. anna says:

    i know what i said i know about how they live but im just saying i shouldnt of said it like that or at all.after i sudmit it i said shoot my bad.so i cant take what i said back.im mininite and i get stuff asked to me all the time and there not nice to.I should of thought before i wrote.

    • afreen says:

      no anna , caretaker, it doesnt matter i know u people come from different country and cultures i have been born and bought up in dubai i had friends who came from different cultures actually our husbands if muslim culture are allowed to have four wives at a time ,but you are quite true anna by saying that its my own home should throw them out but its not possible coz pak is not my country i have no relatives here im scared as it is by all this im alone in this country,
      U guys i did try to ask our muslim priest but making him come here at home and have a look around is impossible coz my husband he doesnt believe and is very strict about it im sure he has heard those voices too but i dnt know why is he unknown to it he always has a cold shoulder on my side but anyways i try to live with these things try to u know make them go away the Quranic versus do help me a lot but im just scared that i hope it doesnt turn out to be something big in due time and mayb hurt me or my son he is so small even he experiences terrible nightmares but i try to calm him speak to him he is a sweet child but im scared but untill then i cant prove to them that i see things they are ignorant completely think im mad or something when another woman here in this country enters ur life you are nothing but piece of gud for nothing so proving them is useless i usually give up on thinking the day something bad happens mayb then i wil b able to defend myself ,anyways thanx a lot for your expertise on this matter i shall keep u all updated as im alone and atleast you people believe me thankyou caretaker thanx a lot and thank you Anna you are a strong lady i wish i could be like you .

  5. trolldoll1681 says:

    its all good that would have been my first reaction too if she hadn’t been from pakistan. i had to read it a couple of times myself :)

  6. Rose says:

    I too am more worried about your REAL LIFE demons (your husband and his other wife) than the ones you cannot see. Please pray to your God every day for protection. Talk to the “ghost” or “ghosts” in a loud voice and in the name of “Allah” tell them this is YOUR house and they must leave!

    You see ghosts and demons like that get STRONGER the more you fear them. So you have to find away to not be afraid. After that, it will grow weaker.

    My prayers to you for your unhappy marriage. If you want someone to talk to, leave a reply for “Rose” (my name) and I will ask the mods to help us to get in communication.

    Take care and bless you.

  7. Anonymous says:

    hi asha here …these things are happening bcz ur scared of somethng in ur personallyf ..first of all u need mental relief please dnt bother about the things happening god is there..one of my suggestion s to get marry another person thrown the person rytnw ur ……..

  8. sharmgal says:

    hi there…..
    hey anna i totally agree with u….but we cant do anything coz its the muslim culture..just like u..if i had a hubby like that, i would have kicked him out together with his partner…

    ok afreen…what u should do is try placing salt in your room or in your house. the stone type salt. another thing, maybe u can try to talk to whatever is disturbing u…tell it plz give u a peace of mind but tell politely….if it doesnt work….u have to see ustaz(muslim medium) all the best my dear…..

    • arlyn says:

      Hi Afreen,

      If you were my sister, I will be the one to kick your husband out of that house.

      I really feel sorry for you. Things should not be like this. He is not worth of your respect and love. He is not treating you like a wife anymore.

      Forget about your son not seeing his father if you move out. He is not deserving for this wonderful word, a “father”. He has a cold heart, just like a dead people and it will be useless to stay. If you think you can bring back the flame by acting a “martyr”, I am sorry my dear but it will not help. It will only give you more pain seeing him and his second wife in a happy situation. It is time for you to move on. Find a job and move to your parents house. Start your own life and be happy with it. If in the future a new love is knocking to the door of your heart, why not. After all it is your right to be happy too. You don’t deserved that man. It is time for you to forget him.

  9. trolldoll1681 says:

    afreen, i’m sorry for your situation, and i wish you could move to england to be with your mother. yes i would follow your mothers advice. does your husband enjoy the fact that you and his other wife don’t get along? this could be poltergeist like and be worse. i guess all you can do is be strong for your young son. be safe and we are thinking of you! how do you get access to a computer?

  10. trolldoll1681 says:

    caretaker, i’m having problems reading some of these comments. i realize some of the folks here prefer using text to write with. i just have a hard time knowing what they are saying.

  11. afreen says:

    i am using iphone its easy to access with that trolldoll i actually enjoy seeing ghostly movies and all supernatural things excited me before i wanted to know whether do exist or they are just myths and all thats how i got to this site i started reading your stories but suddenly after 6 to 7months of my shifting to my own home with everyone i started experiencing these things thats when i really am scared now i know they exist somehow coz unless u see something with ur own eyes you dont believe thats how i do believe now and im scared but at the same time i have a strong blief in God maybe uptil now this thing hasnt hurt me or my son.

  12. trolldoll1681 says:

    afreen, keeping your faith strong and avoiding any confrontational situations with your husbands wife is the way to go. just concentrate on taking care of you and your son will hopefully push back the activity. i am concerned for your safety, but at the same time, i know you will prevail against the negativity in your home!! you are a strong and beautiful woman and i believe in you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  13. Lotus S. Dust says:

    Afreen, honey, my heart goes out to you. Be strong love & pray. I will pray for you. I know what its like to have a cold husband. I hope you get some healing & you can gain some independence. That is if you are planning on leaving. Also as far as the spiritual stuff, I do believe that because of some cultures in certain countries there is more spiritual warfare. Do get some guidance & support. Bless you.

    also, sorry I talk a lot! LOL! But to add, you’re NEVER alone! Call on God, i promise he will be with you. & you are a strong woman, I say this because from what I gather you endure quite a bit & to be able to go through it day after day is admirable if you ask me! So believe you’re strong sister, believe. Bless you & keep us posted love!

    ~~LSD~~

  14. afreen says:

    thank you all of you you all are like my own friends i feel u all very close to me now thank you all for your support and encouragement.

    • carlitha says:

      Hey there afreen. I was reading your story and I was thinking why is it happening to her.. Well his are my answer, I respect your culture how men can have more than 1 wive.. Don’t let him or her mess with you, be strong and stand up of your self and your son’s safety.. Try to talk to her and depending how it goes aske her if she belives in paranormal things or have seen them.. Check here out, see what she does all the time, your mother is right don’t eat anything that they give you and don’t leave you things around the house, keep your son away from her.. Next, you said that you like watching ghost movie and wonder if they were real, well this might be happening to you in a way to let you know that they are real and don’t judge spirits.. Is okay if you don’t belive in them 100% but do believe that they are out there.. Just pray and is house house you can sell your house and move with your mother away from them.. Just take care and don’t worry orbs cannot hurt you…

  15. Rose says:

    Afreen you are so welcome. I am going to pray for you. I personally think that there is one God and we all see him differently, but all prayers lead to the same power. So even if I am Christian and you are Muslim, it is our hearts and minds that count, rather than our religion.

    Even I can see how your post has touched so many people. That shows what a good lady you are. The strength of all of us against evil means good will prevail!

    If you can go home to your parents that would be great. I don’t know if they are the type that will say “you married him, stick with him.” I hope not!

    At any rate, as I said, I will pray for you and I am sure others here will too!

  16. Anonymous says:

    I’m sorry u have to go through this but you know how you say that these things always happen around 3 or 4am? Well i was watching the movie paranormal activity nd I noticed that the events always happened around 3. I told my mom that she toldme something. She toldme that when god was killed whatever you want to call it, he died around that time and most demons will come at this time because god isn’t there to help during that time. I’m not sure if your religion consists of beleiving god but that is what I beleive is happening to you. And I also do beleive that ur husbands second wife does voodoo. She most likeley has a voodoo doll and is trying to hurt you so you can leave. But be strong and keep fighting. :) . Oh yea one more thing have you ever tried putting cameras in your house? That way you can see what is going on in your house. And wuteveryou do do NOT use a ouijs board. It will just make things worse.

    • Dee says:

      3am is known as the “bewitching hour”. The time of Jesus’ death was allegedly 3pm, so as a way of mocking his death, they attack at 3am. I copied this from another page….

      “3pm is the time of jesus’ death, jesus being the son, or messanger for god, it would make sense that 3am would be the time for demons, 3am is the exact opposite to 3pm. and demons are the messangers for satan, the exact opposite to jesus. its all about opposites:) The thing to add is that at 3am is also when Satan appeared to Chirst in the Garden the morning of good Friday. It was then 12 hours later that he commended his spirit to the Father. 3am has become known by exorcist as the bewitching hour. When demonic activity is at its highest.”

      • Caretaker says:

        If you think about the 3 AM thing really doesnt make sense. There are different time zones all over the planet and the time is often changed (daylight savings time etc)…. I seriously dont think that the spirit world is concerned about what time it is. We actually had a discussion about # AM and the Dead time at http://www.talkparanormal.com/thread-5157.html

      • trolldoll1681 says:

        how can we know what time those events happened when they happened thousands of years ago and all they had to go on was the sun in the sky and the stars? a haunting can happen anytime day or night.

  17. ANGEL says:

    HI,
    AFREEN.I read ur story.I m sry fr wht u r suffering.But dont worry we all r praying for u.U will surely come out of all this.But i think tht if u r having any doubt on ur hubbys second wife,then go in her room n check the house.May be u get something?go n check it out.
    n dont be scarred.just shout on what ever it is.if it is troubling you more.n dont speak to ur husband about all this.n dont show ur fear to him.tell him tht u r not scarred of any thing n u dont need his help to get rid of all this.Just do this may be,he will look after u.
    Just ignore him in all situations.he will surely realise it.make him realise tht he is living in ur house u r not living in his house.Just do it.Dont worry everything will be fine.
    Ask ur son does he see or feel anything which makes him scared?
    n check the house.go upstairs where u can hear the noise of shifting the furniture.check the room.just see tht didi u get something. n bless the room read kuran there.n see wht happens?may be this helps u.try it.I will pray to god tht all goes well soon.
    Take care n give us update.Bye.

  18. Lisa says:

    Afreen,I agree that if it is possible, it would be best if you could take your son and go back to stay with your parents. I wish you the best (I know how it is to be mistreated by a husband, too) and I will be praying for you and your little boy!

  19. Rose says:

    Afreen, Pakistan food is soooo good! Would you cook for the 30 or so of your supporters if we stopped by for a visit?! Lol! Just kidding!

    I just wanted to reiterate, a friend of mine used to say, he feared the living more than the dead. I think this might be true in your case. At anyrate, and I think others have said this a few times, the less you fear the paranormal stuff going on, it will most likely weaken…

    Hugs, Rose

  20. anna says:

    hi afreen i was just wondering how things are.like i said before awhile ago and whats done is done but i do feel bad and i know you werent upset in what i wrote but i do wonder how things are.i hope we hear from you soon.dont know when but soon.i am curious in how things are and going.if you heard anything else hows your son with everything whats going on.

  21. Anonymous says:

    Heya dear m 4m India n i really feel bad 4 u..Anyways i think u shld check suspicious things in the other wife’s room.Or maybe u mst b having some eyesight problem.Do visit a doctor 2 make sure.Khuda Hafiz tc dear:)

  22. Olga says:

    Hey Afreen,

    Have U tried 2 snoop in the wives room 2 C if theres anything out of the ordinary that might help U understand wats goin on? & have U thought of maybe selling the house & going 2 live W/ Ur Mom? I know that Ur Culture is very different from ours but if Ur husband no longer want’s 2 B W/ U, is divorce against Ur Culture? I’m sorry if I sound ignorant but I don’t know that part of Ur Culture & I’m curious. It’s sad how not only U R suffering from this but Ur son as well & I pray 2 God that things get better 4 U & U somehow find out wats goin on…Take care Sweety

  23. Maheen says:

    hey afreen, im from pakistan too and i went through something similar to what u have mentioned. i think its black magic. i was once under it and i went through stuff just like that. consult some peer or witch doctor, they can help u. but if its not black magic then move out of that house and live on ur own with ur son. Good Luck!!

  24. Brad says:

    you should put saw dust in all the entrences of your house to see if the second wife or some one near you is doing this or to rule out a person! but you must believe in it or it work! once you have 100% that belife in the saw dust works! you start ruleing out pepole ! cause if u believe in the saw dust it wont let your enimes pass only your friends,family and pepole who mean you no harm or have no intenion of hurting you! if they can not pass the barior they are your enemy whether you know it or not! to test if hows your enemy, you put the saw dust in a door way in a straight line from endend to ended! make a false acuse to invite them in to the room! usaly if they cant pass they know why and will make a false acuse to not come it the room! they will usally stop before they enter its like hiting an invsable wall that u can not pass! no matter how hard you try! after that you rule out humans you use salt but with salt you but it every where you can get in to your house windows,doors,fireplace! everywhere fast before the entiy comes after you cause it will do EVERY THING

  25. dayna says:

    afreen, i think ur being followed by a poltergiest. buti read ur last reply frirst by accedent, so im glad ur findin it out

  26. Rose says:

    Dayna, that is an interesting idea. Can you explain why you think this is poltergeist activity?

    Rose

  27. Rosa says:

    Hi oh my god i am arabic too and if i had that troube i would call priest.

  28. ayesha says:

    Afreen, just a suggetion
    if you think it’s black magic then i have something for you i’m a muslim too and surah al Falaq and surah al Naas can help you here.
    all the best!

  29. lavi says:

    afreen
    this is really bad that u have to put up with a cold husband
    it makes me feel very bad and my heart goes 4 u.i have 2 sons
    and i know what it is to bring up a child.u cant possibily put up with him
    may god bless u and u r child and give ample strength to cope with ur difficulties

  30. anna says:

    u know what everyone is saying what u sould do but the real question is what do you want to do?what ever u deside we are all behide u 110%.even if thats not we want for you.take care and i or we all are looking forward to hear from you soon.

  31. Khan says:

    Sister Afreen, don’t worry the solution is quite simple. I had the same problem. In fact they or it even attacked my son. Alhumdolillah Subhanallah that thing is now gone. Here are the things you must do on a regular basis:

    1. Always keep the house clean. If there are small children in the house make sure their soiled clothes are immediately washed.

    1. Try to always stay in a state of wudu.

    2. Before entering the bathroom always recite, Bismillah – Allahhuma inni aozobayka minal khubtee wal khabaith (from hadees Bukhari)

    3. Whenever you enter your house the first thing you should do is go to the corner of the house to the right of the Qibla and recite the Adzan. Then do the same thing in the second corner and the 3rd and 4th. Do this for 2 weeks observe the effect on the house and you.

    4. Before you sleep you must recite Ayatul Kursee. This is from the hadees Bukhari of the Prophet Mohammed (peace be on him) You can say it once or 3 times. I can promise you you will sleep well Inshallah.

    5. Unless you are in a state of impurity (menses) you must perform all your prayers. All 5 are very important. Take particular care not to miss Fajar and Asar.

    6. Be bold and next time you feel or see or hear something don’t be afraid, fear only Allah Subhanotalah and yell out to that moron and state clearly, ” I am a Muslim and if you do not leave me and this house alone you are sure to burn by Allah Subhanotalah’s wrath”.

    7. Finally Surah Baqarah is most effective against any of these filthy and vile creatures. Simply recite a little bit each day, but you must recite aloud. If you like another thing that I found effective was constantly playing Surah Baqarah on CD or from the internet or even the entire Quran. This really drives them insane.

    If you need more advise, write on this forum I will look out for your comments.

    I hope Inshallah your problem is solved by Allah Subhanotalah’s mercy. I will pray for you.

    Salaamalikum

  32. Khan says:

    Sister Afreen – One more thing – DO NOT TRUST Peers or witch Doctors. Trust only in Allah Subhaotalah and the solutions he has prescribed in the Quran and the hadees of the Prophet Mohammed (Peace be on him).

    Sister Maheen, why do you lead people away from Islam??? Witch Doctors, Peers are all contrary to Islam and they can’t even save themselves let alone you or anyone else for the matter. Worse With Doctors profess and practice black magic which is haram and a great shirk. Please seek forgiveness from Allah Subhonatalh and stop misleading people. Amy Allah Subhanotalah guide you all.

  33. Kaki says:

    Honestly, this really just sounds like a stress induced situation from the 2nd wife moving in and your husband preferring her. Seeing colors? Waking up in the night in terror, wanting to get your husband but not being able to because he’s unavailable to you? Chest pains like a needle in your heart? All symptoms of being (understandably) overstressed. Go visit your mom, whether it’s your house or not you NEED a vacation!

    • arlyn says:

      she doesn’t need a vacation. what she need is to move out and leave her husband. she has to move on and she must not let herself acting like a martyr.

      • anna says:

        i agree shes been through so much.and if she did take a vacation she would still have to come to to everything .

  34. mimi says:

    I don’t like the fact a man can have 4 wives. That is why there are so many sad stories here. To deal with one wife and love her with all your heart is not easy, how the hell can a man handle 4 wives? Is there any way for you to leave your husband for good?

    • arlyn says:

      This is their culture and will be very hard for them to change it. I believe that if a man has 4 wives, there will be no more love left to the man for the other wives and that is how it becomes unfair.

      Muslim women should start to understand that some Muslim men are not giving respect to the sanctity of marriage and no respect even for their feelings if they will get hurt or not.

      • wise says:

        in Islam, men are allowed to have 4 wives at the same time, but there are certain conditions that Islam has ruled out before any guy can marry another woman. now tis is practiced differently in different countries, with different culture, different race. its the different culture that varies the teaching of Islam.

        • arlyn says:

          Hello Wise!

          Luckily I am not a Muslim woman because if I am one of them, I will definitely do the things in which a Muslim man tends on doing with their wife.

          If for example my husband brings his 3 wife in the house, I will live to have 5 husbands and will bring them in the same house and I will let my first husband feel the same thing and insult he gave me as a wife.

          This way makes life FAIR and PERFECT as couple!

  35. trolldoll says:

    this is the way their culture has been for thousands of years. i’m sure they were raised with multiple mothers and siblings. just like mormons and other sects here in the us used to be. i for one couldn’t do it but i can’t criticize their ways.

  36. Anonymous says:

    Hearing your story was like seeing a horror movie near me. I think you should overcome the emotion for the loss of your husband(if any). It is time to live for yourself and your son. In Tamil, there is a proverb which states that you should remove a spine with a spine. If the second wife of your husband uses Voodoo, then you should also do it.

    • anna says:

      are you saying she should do voodoo on the wife?i just my opoion i dont think she shouldbecause two wrongs dont make a right.

  37. mimi says:

    I don’t think Voodoo is something God wants us to play with at the first place. It is an evil thing in life. I believe there will be some better ways to solve this problem than to fight back by using Voodoo crap.

    • anna says:

      i agree if she fights back dirty then shes no good just like the other wife.and i dont think afreen is like that.she just wants whatever it is or whoever it is to stop.but i do agree with what u said.

  38. Olga says:

    I agree W/ Mimi & Anna, I don’t think dat Voodoo is the way 2 go about fixing the problem but of corse every1 has they’re own opinions.

    • anna says:

      i just hope afreen is ok.i wish she would come on here and tell us whats going on and if she found anything out.if it is the other woman or what.as long as she and her son is safe from all of this thats the main thing.

  39. Anonymous says:

    Dear Afreen,

    First of all why did you buy the house? It is your money and that husband of yours has the cheek to stay in your house with his second wife. Why did you allow it? If he is not being a good father and not a good husband why don’t you sell the house and move in with you parents? You surely have nothing to lose.For all you know your own husband must be involved in this with your second wife and maybe that’s why he is acting indifferent so that you don’t suspect him or his wife. Afreen, I am from India and based in Dubai. My faith is different but I would not tolerate somone living of my money and harming me and my child. Till where I know, muslim men are suppose to take the permission of their first wife if she can’t bear him a son and then get married but unfortunately they misuse the Quran and marry for their pleasure.

    • anna says:

      i am pretty sure that her parents bought the house for her.but i do agree with you.i would not tolerate with it to.she said she was going to kick the wife out and she didnt care for what he has to say about that.wich its good. she was going to sell the house and her and her son were going to move in with her mom.so i dont know what happened bacause she said she would let us know after the guy was going to check the house on the friday.one thing i dont understand if the husband wasnt happy with her why would he be with her then?maybe you can anwser that.

    • arlyn says:

      It’s not fair for all Muslim women that their husband can have as many wives as they want.

      I wonder how a Muslim men are going to feel if their Muslim wife have 4 husbands altogether in one house?

  40. Sharmila says:

    May be Afreen’s husband is a freeloader and he is staying with Afreen for her money and the house.

    • AnNa says:

      that could be true.i never thought of that.you never know these days what people will do.

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