I am 29 years old, two years ago my husband committed suicide, he died in august on the 20th.
His spirit haunted me the first night after I buried him. He visits me and my children and when we are hurt or crying he shows up. He talks to me and touches me. I thought for a while I was crazy until someone else witnessed it.
Even in death he still comes around, after it rains, the first cold day of winter, the anniversary of his death. He gives me signs that he’s here, or he talks to me, “hi babe ” he says as I walk out of a room. He talks to my daughters and apologizes for him being gone.
I have proof. I want to submit this picture I have of him, you decide if I’m crazy or not. All my life I have had encounters with ghosts, spirits, shadows, even the grim reaper, or angel of death. I was scared to tell anyone about what happened to me but here goes.
My grandmother had been very ill for the past three years. I decided to move in with her to take care of her after my husband killed himself. Well to make matters worse her house was haunted with her sisters spirit. She would always appear to me in the restroom, behind the shower curtain, and she would say to me “I have to tell you something”. I always ignore it and acted as if I did not hear. This happened all my life while I lived in this house. She has been dead since I was born. She died in 1977 and I was born in 1979.
Anyway, two months before my grandmother died the angel of death came to me and told me she was going to die. It was a very tall shape in a black cape, his voice was very loud and deep. It came to my window and started talking to me, I thought it was a real person until it told me it wasn’t there for me, I said to it “who are you here for?” and it laughed and walked away.
Everyday that week my grandmother would hear something scratching on her window it terrified her. I even saw it standing behind a tree in our yard. Never a face, just something in a black robe, long and flowing, and always moving really fast.
Four months later she died. It appeared again as the ambulance drove my grandmother to the hospital at 3 in the morning, she never returned home, and I never saw it again, well not time to see it I guess. It didn’t scare me like I thought it would, it was always hiding behind a tree or on the side of the house. I can go anywhere and see a spirit, the follow me. I don’t want to see them, but I do. I guess it a gift or a curse you decide.
Written by Erica Speed, Copyright 2008
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My husband and I are so fascinated with this. We watch alot of the paranormal shows and podcasts. I like seeing personal experiences like this. We took care of my husband father while he was really ill just before he passed away. I remember I was looking down the hall towards his room and seeing a black free floating spirt. I could see the head shape and shoulder shape but from there it just went straight down. It never said anything to be me. I just walked across his room. My father in law died soon after. But never really shared that with anyone until recently with my husband. I see things sometimes but act as though as I don’t see them. I don’t want to give in into it right away, kind of scared of it.
My husband posted some videos on his blog. Feel free to check them out.
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I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, MABY HE MISSES YOU AND WISHES HE HADEN’T ENDED HIS LIFE. I HAD A SIMLER EXPERICE WITH MY GRANDPA WHO AT THE TIME WAS SICK BUT REFUSED TO GO TO THE DOCTER(MORE ON THAT LATER) THAT IS A WONDERFUL STORY , AND I HOPE HE STILL VISITS YOU.
THAT IS SCARY I SEEN THE SAME THING AT MY WINDOW WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND MY SISTER SEEN IT TO AT THE SAME AGE
I woke up one night to see a figure standing beside my bed wearing a black hooded robe too. He was solid as any person he stood there with his head down . He didnt look at me or say anything. then he moved forward and dissapeared. I see ghostall the time but they dont scare me as much as he did.
WOW AMAZING I THOUGHT I SAW SOMETHING IN A BLACK CAPE WHEN I WAS READING THIS STORY!!(SNIFFLE SNIFFLE)
I have proof. I want to submit this picture I have of him, you decide if I’m crazy or not. All my life I have had encounters with ghosts, spirits, shadows, even the grim reaper, or angel of death.
Where’s the picture?
there is a flaw to this story , in one part you say that 2 months before your gran died the figure appeared , then you say 4 months later she died , i believe in ghosts and i know they are real but is this made up ?
I have the same things happen to me . My great Grandma died when i was like 1 . I was at the hos[tial and new that she was dead and no one told me she was. I knew before anyone found he dead.
Hmmm i hope you will be interested to read it but i have some thing to share to you do you believe in GOD ? well im not a religious person but i want you to believe in him bacease the ghost you see is not the soul of your dead husband but the evil spirit its a familiar spirit that tries to make fool of you and the angel of death in an evil spirit too and the more you put your faith in it and if you believe in it the more it will come true here are some tips for you to prevent all that demon works firt of all you should accept GOD as your personal LORD and Savior because if you accepted HIM as your personal LORD and Savior HE will always guard you where ever you go and he will not let the evil spirit come near to you because the blood of JESUS is covering you the second one is you should read your BIBLE every day make a daily devotions because if you grow in GOD’s word your can be the greatest story ever told (your life in CHRIST can be the greatest story ever told). And the last one you should always pray to GOD
try it and GOD will bless you more and more.
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i’m so sorry for your loss and i wished he could have talked to you about what was bothering him suicide is not the way please get that pic on here we would all like to see it!
OMG, GOOSEBUMPS!!!!! Have had personal experiances like this to. It is just creepy. IDK if it is real or just my imagination.
Am really sorry 4 ur loss. Hope ur kids r doing well. Dont worry everything will b alright. & i must say, the title really suits the story “love never dies”. Its amzing. God bless u. Take care!!!
people that dont believe in this really shudnt even luk at it,have sum respect after she losing her husband.theres a reason why uv ur self called dont talk to me cos ur a bitter fool.
I HAVE HEARD ALOT OF GHOST STORIES AND FROM MY EXPERIENCES, I NEVER EVEN SAW A GHOST BEFORE. [I HOPE I DO NOT EVER SEE A GHOST BEFORE BECAUSE THAT WOULD REALLY FREAK ME OUT.] WELL, I HOPE YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOU CAN NOT FORGET YOUR KIDS. STAY SAFE AND I WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOU IN MIND AND ESPECIALLY YOUR KIDS, TOO.
hey first i want to say so sorry for your loss sweety! its good to know though that he can still come to you and talk to you which of course is not the same but better than nothing. also wheres the picture i would very much like to see it. oh and about your seeing spirits everywhere i think it can be both a gift and a curse….depending on the day
A couple years ago my boyfriend committed suicide. i was young, 16 and hav grown a lot since then n hav more of a sense of myself now, n i may not know exactly what you went through cuz i’m sure the relationships were different in ways, but i have an idea. i’ve never seen him but i’v gotten the feeling that he was there many times watching over me, espechially when i’v needed him too. this one nite that sticks out most in my mind, i don’t remember how long ago it was but one night i was laying in bed trying to fall asleep and thinking about him(iv done that from time to time) and i got the feeling that he was with me, it was really dark in my room so i couldn’t see much but i was terrified to look around and jus lay there facing the wall petrified like something was staring at me. it completely freaked me out.
I believe in God and I see spirits. Not all ghost are evil. The ghost that come to me are earth bound souls looking for help to cross over. And yes I read the Bible.
That was a beautiful story. My husband which was my high school sweet heart and father of my 2 daughters died back in 1991 he was in the service, I would love for him to come visit me and my girls, I know it sound crazy but I miss him still to this day and my daughters I believe need to feel his presence. Embrace and cherish that bond that you and your husband share.
Hey there well that’s true that Love never dies and well i have had some experiences my self with the spirit in my house. The spirit is a little girl. I saw her walking into my room and i followed her into my room but when i walked in there, she was gone and no where to be found the next few days i just felt weird walking around in my house and a few weeks later my little brother say her in his bed room after that my oldest sister say her in the kitchen. She has been afraid to go in there for a while.
yeah where the pictures???? i want to see it all also… i wonder why he got suicide or maybe he did not commit suicide at all or maybe it is a foul play… or someone or somebody force him to do it…
i think this is the sweetest thing ive ever heard but why did your husband commit suicide
i will return.
i bet the ghost in the robe is a reaper and he killed your grand-mother because she always saw him and he was always there when you saw him so he could of been waiting for her time to die!
SPOOKY!
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GHOST OF LOVERS PAST
O, that is a sweet story, I see the gohst of my mother, right before i go to sleep, it freaked me out the first time she visited me. But i got used to it and i kinda like it.
I told you I would be back, and belive it.
the sweetest thing ive ever heard
ammm it ia great it means ur husband loves u alotttttt!!!!!!!!!!!!
why did your husband kill his self if you dont mind me askin im jus curious cause if i had a good wife an family i wouldnt kill my self
but i am very sorry an i hope you take care i know how it feels to lose a loved one my uncle killed hisself
wheres da picture
dang!so he really talks to you?arnt you scared!i know i would be!well it kindda sounds like it fake but at the same time it sounds real!i dont belive the part where he talks to you but okay i guess!
wheres the picture i want to see it
Some of you need to keep your opinions to yourself …………….religious hypocrites………. Not all ghosts are evil they are just waiting here on earth until the rapture
And maybe the dark entity was telling you of her death so it wouldn’t be so sudden….loss is easier that way…. If you just pay attention most of the time you can see death work…. I’ve woke up many times from dreams of peaceful serenity enevopling my loved one but I hear later that they have passed… The only time I witnessed a entity like that was when my younger brother died….I remember seeing the figure stand over his crib…I saw him there for a couple nights and then when i went to check his crib for the third time… he wasn’t breathing… so I know how it feels…
man i love this story i have seen many hooded figures anywhere in my new house emphises on the new
oh god…that would freak me out sooo much…i would be terrified if i heard somethin scratchin at my window…AHH
I’m sorry for the loss of your husband, great aunt and grandma…
It’s wonderful that your husband is still around and talks and comforts your children.
My dad died of a heroin overdose and when i was babysitting my younger brother, he revealed his presence to us and apologised to me and said that he loved me and that he’d be there for my brother and I.
It’s never easy to lose a loved one…
It will probably be more difficult for your daughters too… I’m sooo sorrryyyy….
Bless you and take care.
Have you considered the possibility that you are a HSP? (highly sensitive person) If you are unsure, just google it and take a self test thing. It may explain a lot and God bless you.
yes i beleive you i am a member of a ghost hunting team , if he really did love you when he was alive he is there comfort you and the kids he probaly feels bad for leaving you , so he is there to help you when you need him as he was in real life , eventually he may decide you no longer need him and not come around, but with him committing suicide he may be stuck on earth as a punishment for what he did and may just realize the grave mistake he made as a human .. I am sorry for your loss and hope you and the kids the best in life . Look at the children and remember that they are there for you and be there for them.
I feel like ghosts follow me too. No matter where I go something weird always happens. I have vivid dreams of people sitting on my bed stroking my hair just to find myself awake in bed alone not remembering if I had fallen asleep or not. I always thought I was crazy. I’m so happy someone else feels like spirits can “see” them more than other people. I think it’s a curse and a gift. I see things I don’t want to but then again everyone close to me that’s ever died has come back to say good-bye…including my dad, best friend and grandma…I’ve even received messages for other people from spirits. I think if you ignore it it’s harder for them to come through and never fear them.
Hi I just wanted 2say that sum times I see things at the corner of my eye but don’t think much of it and I hear my name being called when no 1 else is in the house it’s starting 2 bother me as I spend most of the time alone at night I’m scared more as I hear loud bangs and my partner also hears them some times we hear what sounds like my daughter walking around but when I check on her she’s fast asleep I don’t no why but some times I can go 2 a place they I have never been 2 before and straight away i can tell if some thing ain’t right only 2 find out later on that a person has died there I don’t no if it is some kind of sixth sense or some thing please tell me wot u think . Jade