Comments on: Grandma’s Midnight Visit

By: lmconline

lmconline — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 09:02:49 +0000

whis is all i will say

There is a difference between a hallucination and a real encounter

but it does not seem so to the one experiencing it he cannot make out the difference

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By: Gina

Gina — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 16:46:08 +0000

THAT BOUGH A TEAR TO MY EYE…..IT MAKE ME THINK HOW MUCH I LOVE MY BEAUTIFULL NANNY…

BLESS YOU AND YOUR GRAN X

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By: Kat

Kat — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 20:24:10 +0000

No problem Tabbycat just hope everything turns ok!

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By: tabbycat

tabbycat — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 10:31:56 +0000

sorry about the spelling mistakes!

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By: tabbycat

tabbycat — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 10:31:15 +0000

thank you Darstar and kat for your kindness i realy am soo happy and to Kathy i just wanted to say that i think that your grandmouther would of appretated all you have done for her u should not feel guilty it wasent your fult.

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By: DarStarr

DarStarr — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 12:32:14 +0000

Tabbycat,
I am sending your father ALL my prayers to get better – and I hope that all the caring people on this thread will do the same. There IS power in prayer!!!
God bless you!

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By: Kat

Kat — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 12:17:40 +0000

tabbycat I am soooo sorry to hear about your father! I am glad to hear he is still with you!

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By: tabbycat

tabbycat — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 04:06:35 +0000

hello i am tabby i am 13 and i would just like to say its not your fullet. i to have a very strong relationship with my grandmouther my father is very ill right now and is getting a heart trainsplant and there is stuff that i did that i regret doing but i belive that if they can see us now they would forgive us and smile down on us from above.

p.s my father is not past away thank god.

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By: Manik

Manik — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 17:27:57 +0000

You are so lucky to have a caring grandma WHO CAME BACK TO SEE YOU AFTER HER DEATH wow. Nice story, you shouldn’t be guilty its totally not ur fault its the time she reached her time to go to Heaven so she left but i feel sorry because u were not present in that time.

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By: Karen M.

Karen M. — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 16:43:36 +0000

Jenn,

I just went back and re-read my comment and it is hard sometimes with text messages to understand, no need to apoloize!

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By: Jenn

Jenn — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 16:30:17 +0000

Karen M.
Sorry for any misunderstanding. I posted my response prior to Kathy’s showing up on the page. Either way, it can be difficult to understand another person’s meaning through email, text, or thread discussions, so if I misinterpretted what you were saying, I apologize.

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By: DarStarr

DarStarr — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:28:46 +0000

Kathy,
Thank you, I understand. I don’t blame you in the least, I think it was more the way you wrote it that threw me off. It was like, she fell out of bed, bloodied her face and was rubbing candy on a wound – so take care, see ya later kind of thing, but I am sure you did all you could possibly do, and having cared for a grandmother myself who was suffering from dementia when I was in my 20′s I understand. And I believe she understands as well, that is why she came back to let you know.

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By: Karen M.

Karen M. — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 13:53:49 +0000

Jenn,

I’m not being hard on her at all, I simply asked a question and she replied, I never put anyone down for sharing their stories, if it doesn’t interest me, I don’t leave a comment, I just wanted to know and she was kind enough to answer.

P.S. Fenwinkel, you are right it should not have been her responsibility

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By: Jenn

Jenn — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 13:02:24 +0000

Karen M and DarStarr,
I my opinion, you shouldn’t be so hard on Kathy.
I am sure that we have all made mistakes in our life, for which we are not proud. If somebody wants to come to this site and share their experience, they shouldn’t be chastized for it. I am sure that she has beaten herself up enough.

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By: Fenwinkel

Fenwinkel — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 12:47:28 +0000

Why are you people blaming a 16-year-old for not staying with her grandmother? Why put the responsibility on her? Why didn’t her mother or father stay home? They are the adults and it would have been their responsibility to take care of the grandmother.

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By: Kathy

Kathy — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 08:44:45 +0000

Thank you so much guys…

@KarenM
I used to be there all the time… It was the first time I went out leaving her with mom and others in the family… and it happened…. I feel guilty for that as well… If I’d known I’d fight god for her life…

@ Darstarr
I could not postpone it… my friend needed me desperately and I didn’t know this was gonna happen… This was probably the first time I was out… And my grandma found any dish she ate very spicy… so she ate candies to soothe the tongue… she was not in a sound mental state that day and that’s why she tried rubbing candy on the wound (it was a minor cut… nothing serious) so that she could get rid of that sensation…

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By: pinky

pinky — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 07:49:20 +0000

.,_so sad.,Condolence.,Hope this story can wake those heart of those people who lived their grandma to toher people.,hope everyone of us will apprecite this story.,

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By: trolldoll1681

trolldoll1681 — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:29:20 +0000

don’t feel so guilty, her state of mind was failing like with dementia. i saw my sibling purposely be mean and leave my mom alone when these kinds of things happened to her. its not your fault you had things to do. you said you had a servant, and that helped. older people need continuous care. you love her and she made the effort to come back to you and let you know she did love you. she’s in a better place and at peace now. bless your heart for loving her!!

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By: meli§a

meli§a — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 23:29:10 +0000

such a sad, yet sweet story. i am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. everyone knows it’s never easy losing a loved one. especially if you were very close. sounds like her visit was meant to assure you that she knows you love her, & everything is ok. i know easier said than done, but for closure, you MUST FORGIVE yourself for feeling guilty & ACCEPT it. that way, you can move forward with peace of mind.

my grammy raised me, i love her more than anything in the world, we know how pretty we are, and there’s no shame in that! it’s called confidence

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By: Kat

Kat — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 22:06:05 +0000

Maybe she could not miss it but I do I see your point, I am not trying to argue with you or anything but to wright a exam for a blind person you puncher the paper with a pencil making braille symbols then they run there fingers over the priced paper and read the symbols. Hope that helped your friend Kat.

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